Dear friends, there is a well known saying-OUR BODY IS THE ABODE OF GOD. Learned sages throughout the ages have sought answers to the existential question embedded deep within human psyche.
How profoundly deep and loving is God’s hand, seen within and without. Who can deny acknowledging his presence all around us?
MINOR CHIP IN THE ARMOUR
This abode of God, our own bodies, dear friends sometimes causes a lot of distress. The love and care that God shows us in the subtle play of human emotions, becomes a hindrance. We yearn to love; we yearn to be loved. We yearn to have love and joy in our lives. We yearn to hold our deepest expression of love, our kids, in our arms. Yet something pulls us back. Something rises deep within us and we feel so helpless. Unable to bring forth our desires upfront, we suffer in painful silence.
Dear friends, our immediate surroundings, our cultural legacies mould our psyche. Small fears and small inhibitions, keep on piling up. Slowly they attain gigantic proportions. And we feel so helpless and defenceless against those torrid emotions that pour forth.
What is it that pulls and drags us back into this chasm of gloom? Does it even have a scientific name? Can we ever go and get help for our miseries? Is there anyone who would listen to our woes with sympathy?
LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL
Dear friends, you are not the only one who is suffering in silence. There are so many others like you, who having suffered for so long, decided to act. You too can do it. You too can overpower all your negative emotions.
Yes, my dear friends, our problem has a scientific name. It identifies our problem in a very broad generalised manner. It covers the physical aspect in a tight nutshell. Vaginismus is defined as recurrent or persistent involuntary spasm of the musculature of the outer third of the vagina, which interferes with coitus and causes distress and interpersonal difficulty.
- INCOMPLETE PICTURE
But the human body is not all brick and mortar, like the houses that we build. All our problems cannot be only physical in nature. A very big chunk of our problems have a deep-rooted psychological aspect too. This leads to a gradual build-up of pain, anger and resentment between a couple. A family without kids is like a barren theatre of life.
WHO WILL UNDERSTAND THAT?
The trained counsellors are there to listen to all your problems. Not in a perfunctory manner. Not unsympathetically. Not judgementally. They are there as your friend in need.
They don’t censure you. They don’t chide you. They don’t ridicule you. They don’t laugh at you.
- IS THERE REALLY A WAY OUT?
Yes, my dear friend, there indeed is a way out of our miseries. We have to come forward to seek help from the counsellors. All our fears and inhibitions have a base and origin in our own past. We have to open up and discuss all our negative emotions, truthfully with the counsellors. These trained counsellors always know how to help us out.
- ARE THE EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL STATE INTERLINKED?
In order to complete our family and have children, physical intimacy cannot be avoided. That is the way God and Nature, has designed and programmed our survival. When the doctor finds no physical defects in our reproductive organs, then the only reason one is unable to conceive, lies in our mental and emotional state of mind. It is for this very reason, we need to open up and discuss all our psychological issues with the counsellors.
- DOES IT LEAD TO A POSITIVE OUTCOME?
A family is a union of two individuals. Here collective action culminates in a state of harmony. Likewise the couples have to fight the psychological issues jointly. It is very imperative that the man understands the emotional problem of the women , so that the counsellor can work out the best solution for them.
Whatever is the diagnosis given; whatever is the medication/therapy prescribed: a sensitive sympathetic supportive partner is the key-solution to the mental blockage faced by the women.
- WHERE TO GO FOR HELP?
It is here, at KJIVF CENTER, where you will get all the help and support that you need.
The very efficient and highly trained counsellors are not robots or magician .They are human beings like you and me. With their personal touch and motivation, they are forever eager and ready to help you out. So friends reach out to them with all your problems, without doubt or fear crippling you.